What Is CFNM?
CFNM stands for clothed female, nude male. It is a sexual niche of erotica, which features one or more nude or mostly nude men and one or more clothed women. The niche is quite broad, encompassing several themes, which make it up. These include role reversal, sexual objectification, female domination, male submissions, exhibitionism, and entertainment. All of these themes however, are usually not combined within a single CFNM fantasy or act due to people’s normal attraction and preference towards one type of sexual activity versus another.
CFNM lends its hand to the topic of role reversal by going against the common trend of a woman being constantly nude and the subject of objectivity in porn. By featuring naked men with women in costumes or clothing, it creates material that goes against what is considered the norm currently.
Themes Commonly Seen In CFNM
Two other themes, Female Domination and Male Submission, are almost directly connected to each other for obvious reasons. Female Domination can be specifically defined as a BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, and Submission) activity, in which the participants include a dominant player who is female and there is a submissive partner whom they show power and dominance over. The only difference with Female Domination and Male Submission is that in male submission, the complying party is always male, while with Female Domination, the docile partner may be a female or male. Of course, one main factor to always remember with these two types of activities is that the power exchange taking place between all parties involved should always be done in a safe manner, and be a consensual matter and agreed upon before hand.
The subjects of Exhibition and Entertainment are also commonly related to each other in the CFNM niche. Exhibitionism is the need to or act of exposing one’s naked body, or select parts of the body, to one or more persons in the vicinity. The focus of the nudity is usually on what are commonly considered “private parts;” more specifically male or female genitalia and female breasts. The exposure usually is an extravagant show, featuring unnecessary and unusually bombastic movements and behavior, which in turn is how it relates to the topic of entertainment. The rowdy actions are meant to draw attention and provide entertainment and enjoyment. Many different specific types of exposure exist including Flashing (the act of baring or stroking bare female breasts or male genitalia), Mooning (act of pulling down one’s trousers and displaying your bare buttocks), Anasyrma (raising one’s skirt to find no underwear and expose bare skin), and Martymachlia (the sexual attraction to wanting others to watch you engage in sexual activities).
CFNM Sub-Niches
Many Sub-Niches exist within the general CFNM niche, namely Femdom CFNM, Medical CFNM, Stripper Party CFNM, Humiliation CFNM, and CFNM Handjobs and Blowjobs. Femdom CFNM applies to people who are specifically interested in Female Domination and Male Submission. These acts of sexuality include clothed females using sharp high-heels, whips, collars, etc. for the infliction of pain upon the naked male subject. Medical CFNM is reserved for those interested in a fantasy of females dressing and acting the part of medical personnel, such as sexy nurses or doctors, and then performing faux medical procedures on their pretend male patients. Stripper Party CFNM is based on the idea of a group of women going out for the night together, involving themselves in some hardcore party activities such as binge drinking and dancing and partying with male strippers, such as at a bachelorette party. These scenarios usually involve a plot line featuring “cock-hungry” girls and everyone involved having an overall good time. Humiliation CFNM Lovers on the other hand are attracted to the act of degradation. A specific type of humiliation that usually takes place in CFNM action is “Small Penis Humiliation” or “SPH.” Small Penis Humiliation is where a man is forced to show a few women his dick, and then are involuntarily subjected to the women’s pointing and laughter, meant to demean him based on the small size of his penis, or under endowment. One last sub-niche that is commonly practiced is the CFNM Handjob, which involves clothed women performing blow-jobs on, or giving handjobs to naked males. This niche too may involve simple sexy clothing or costumes on the women as part of the fantasy.
