Humiliation is another sub-niche of CFNM. Although CFNM humiliation may be identified as a form of femdom, female domination doesn’t necessarily have to cause humiliation and humiliated doesn’t necessarily mean the subject is being dominated. Humiliation is basically the deprivation of ones self esteem. To humiliate someone is to kill their pride. In CFNM humiliation, the woman would degrade and reduce the man to a low mental state or submission.
The goal of CFNM humiliation is to cause sexual arousal for those involved in or watching the event take place at the same time as humiliating the male subject participating in the act. It is a sexual fantasy carried out in various ways. Humiliation may be brought on through embarrassment, mistreatment, trickery, intimidation or bullying. It may also be physical or verbal.
There are varying themes seen in CFNM humiliation. A common theme is that of small penis humiliation. In this type of genre, you may see penis contests, where women compare the size of male penises, humiliating the guy with the smallest penis. Also, there is testicle torture. The genitals are widely seen as the very manhood of a male, so for a woman to torture, distort or degrade a mans penis and/or genitals is a form of humiliation and degrading to men.
Additional types of humiliation may be face slapping, hair pulling, name calling, dripping hot wax, or spitting, among other things. It is common to see tie and tease or tease and denial, which may be similar to bondage. Either way, the woman is the dominating figure and has her way with the man. She degrades his manhood and in turn causes the humiliation.